Guess Who???

Have you ever stopped and said...

"BEST DAY EVER!!!"  

We've all have had our share of more than a few!! I know I have!! Having problems thinking of some? How about a wedding day, birth of a child, graduation, promotion at work, baptism, getting your absolute favorite treat or just an all around awesome day with some family members. 

Personally, I've had a ton of "best day" moments-- I treasure them- hold them close to my heart. 

Just a few of my BEST DAY EVER moments...

The day I married my best friend

Andy dressing up in a banana costume

Dinner with mom

I love my mom time

Getting kisses beachside with my hubby

Having My Mothers Italian Ice with my cousins

My sis and me @ Andy's graduation

Sitting on a rock in Central Park, NYC

Being inside the NYC Library & looking up at the amazing ceiling!!

The day I met the man who would change my life forever

GRAND CENTRAL STATION & the Whispering Walls!

Watching my Andy graduate bible college

Having the entire box of RAINBOW COOKIES

We found out we are going to be auntie/uncle & godparents

My AMAZING Dad and me- I miss you Daddy

Come on... you know you are thinking of one right now at this very moment!!! What is your "Best Day"? Get it in your mind-- get that BIG HUGE grin on your face--

I really believe that we have all of these awesome amazing days-- they make such great lasting memories-- so that when we have the bad not so good days... those memories are there to lift us up. 

Picture this... You are throwing a party at your house- a birthday party let's say. The house is full of family and friends and the music is going- people talking and laughing!! It's amazing, happy, and everyone is smiling-- the wishes have been made, candles have been blown out, cake has been eaten, & presents have been torn open :) ... and as the Mickey Mouse Club song goes... "...and now it's time to say goodbye to all our company..."  everyone leaves. As you say the last goodbye and close the door... your smile fades and you realize-- the house is a mess and you are now all alone. 

Does it sound like your life? Is the "party" gone and you are feeling all alone? 

It's okay, guess who hasn't left you? Guess who has been there the whole "party" and who didn't leave when everyone else did? One guess... no, it's not your dog. lol It's God silly!! 

He has been there since the world began-- he created the world- he created you- he loves you- he has plans that you prosper and have a wonderful future!! (Jeremiah 29:11) God is the One that placed all those "Best Day Ever" moments into motion!!! He is who you need to thank for those amazing days!! 

Some verses to remember in "Best Day Ever" days... and not such good days...

Isaiah 54:17 ncv:"No weapon that is used against you will defeat you. 

Matthew 12:30 ncv: "Whoever is not with me is against me. Whoever does not work with me is working against me. So I tell you, people can be forgiven for every sin and everything they say against God. But whoever speaks against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven."

Psalm 27:1-3 ncv:  The Lord is my light and the one who saves me. So why should I fear anyone? The Lord protects my life. So why should I be afraid? Evil people may try to destroy my body. My enemies and those who hate me attack me, but they are overwhelmed and defeated If an army surrounds me, I will not be afraid. If war breaks out, I will trust the Lord.

Ephesians 3:20 ncv: With God's power working in us, God can do much, much more than anything we can ask or imagine.

2 Corinthians 9:8 ncv: And God can give you more blessings than you need. Then you will always have plenty of everything—enough to give to every good work.

Take care of you :)

Relationships...

Question of the day:: How important are relationships to you?

My amazing hubby & me

I'm talking about all kinds of relationships-- husband & wife, mom & daughter, brother & sister, best friends, dad & son... so on and so on... there are a thousand combinations here...  no matter how you put it, they are all important... right?

Dad & Me

I'm gonna chat with you about friendship relationships. My dad used to tell me "Shelly, you think you have ALL these "friends"- most of them are just acquaintances"- (& of course me and my young rebel self- was like NO NO they are NOT!! They are my true friends dad! You don't know them!) lol you've heard the saying "Father knows best" --you guessed it-- he did!! All of those "friends" dropped me like a hot potato!! He also said "Shelly, you can count your real true friends on one hand- and if you are lucky you will be able to fill it up" Well, he was so right!! Over the years, "friends" (acquaintances) have come and go- I'm 30 now, and I thought that I would have a solid group of friends by now-- you know like the TV show Friends-- they are so close and are just perfect all together; or like the show Sex in the City-- all 4 gal pals livin' it up in NYC- depending on one another to pull through the craziness of life. YEAH OKAY!!! Nothing has proven to be THAT perfect. lol

There comes a time in your life I think that you hit (or at least I have) where you are done "playing around" trying to find a friend to be there no matter what- it's kinda a feeling like when you decide to find a guy to settle down with- that "I'm done just dating for fun" feeling- you crave a more serious, dependable, honest, trustworthy person. 

Do I sound crazy?

Let's compare a friendship relationship to a marriage relationship... 

Well lets face it-- don't we all deserve a REALLY GOOD friend? "Oh yeah, yeah, I have good friends Michelle..." Okay awesome-- 

Well let me ask you... What is a good friend?

• Someone who when you are stuck on the side of the road with no gas or car problems- will jump and come rescue you- nothing like "well I really don't have the gas money.." or guilting you into paying them to come get you
• Someone who when you need prayer- will cover you
• Someone who you can call or text at 2am because you can't sleep- and they actually care to call or text back
• Someone who when you are sick- comes and takes care of you & calls you daily to make sure you are doing okay
• Someone that YOU are willing to drop everything for and ask/expect nothing in return
• Someone who lifts you up and encourages you and tells you the hard truth-- even if it hurts.

These are just some for instances. 

~Ang & Me~

I am so overjoyed to say that I have found the ultimate friend -- she is my best best friend and God placed her in my life, and me in hers! I am just so, so thankful for her and the precious life God has given her!!! Her name is Angie- Thank You so much God for her!!! Man, it has taken YEARS of my life to find her!!! 

Do you know anyone like this? Married folks are like "um yeah... my spouse" --well think about this... If you are married... do you know anyone like this BESIDES your spouse? What if your spouse is like mine and out of the state most days... then what?

What about God? Just a thought... How is your relationship with Him? 

• Do you talk to Him? --Just talk regular as if He was standing right beside you. Like "Hi God, I'm feeling ___________ today. Thank you for being with me." That's it- doesn't have to be anything fancy. 
• Do you read the bible?-- Doesn't have to be for hours-- just spend some time reading with Him. I started in the New Testament- not in the gospels but after-- like after Romans. I actually started in 1 Timothy. Pick somewhere and start. Just read a chapter or a few verses and make that your uninterrupted time with God.
• Do you pray/meditate (thinking on good, praiseworthy things)? Again, no need to be all elegant and fancy here- just speak from your heart. Just talk regular- as if you were talking to your spouse or family/friend. 

Just a little something to think about- yesterday we were talking about "de cluttering" your life and letting God organize it-- relationships go with this. Evaluate your relationships... think about your relationship with God. 

Also remember that you can change a relationship with your words-- that can be a positive or a negative statement-- be careful here. Make it an effort to encourage not discourage!!

Some of my important relationships...

Bro in law Justin & My sister Christine

Mom, Andy & Me

Take Care of you :)