So, I totally know the answer to the question- but I'm asking it anyhow---
Do you ever have those days where you actually say out loud "I've had ENOUGH!" I have... and well i've had quite a bit of them lately. There's a song by Katy Perry that in the lyrics it says... "Days like this I want to drive away- pack my bags and watch your shadow fade". You know that it isn't a bad thing to have these feelings about life, people... everything!!
To be honest, I have yet to figure out how to completely avoid these days... and as far as conquering them... well let's just say crap hurts. Some days it feels like just a scratch and it's a tad uncomfortable, while others feel like you tripped, fell, hurt you knee- hand- and foot, blood everywhere and you need multiple bandages and lots of ice to even remotely feel like ur on the way to recovery.
I'm fully convinced that people truly don't know what they saying and what they are doing! If they did-- I have to ask the question... "would you really be acting the way you are?" Seriously, look in the mirror-- be recorded (sound, picture or both) and see the way you are treating others.
I know that this is not my home home- but OH HOLY COW--- this life can have some really difficult days. Why do people have to be so greedy, mean, disgruntled, rude??? What happened to "hi how are you today?" & actually mean it when you say it. Why does it always have to be that you make the choice to forgive others even when they don't ask for your forgiveness and they still walk all over you?
It's time that I stick up for myself, to stop letting people walk all over me-- I forgive because I want to- because God made my heart that big-- I choose to be the bigger person-- meaning... I choose to pray about circumstances & situations, to ask God how He wants it handled, to not put myself in the "line of fire" just so people see that "oh she is the bigger person for showing her face" and then after they judge me, they turn their backs and say crappy things about me-- I am the bigger person for standing up for who I AM -- I do it for ME --
"This is the part of me that you're never gonna ever take away from me, no. Throw your sticks and stones, throw your bombs and blows, but you're not gonna take my soul." - Katy Perry: Part of Me
Ever have one of these moments?? Don't ever let people tell you how to act, what to say, or how to be the bigger person-- YOU CHOOSE how to act, what to say, and how to be the bigger person. Stick up for YOU & don't let people walk all over you anymore. You can get your point across without causing a scene or a dramatic event.
Take care of you :)